new addition

first of all, thank you very much for all the hearty wishes. we kept on receiving sweet messages through sms, emails, twitter and FB also ym! . we are so overwhelmed that some of you loved to spend your time sharing with us about your first time experiences getting a bun in the oven. not to forget to all friends and family with a neverending support. not to mention all the propagandas before. hehe

frankly speaking, after finding out about the pregnancy, we were so excited. at first, we were not really planning for baby yet, but if this is called fate, then we are so grateful. alhamdulillah we are the chosen one to be a parent at this age. because there are a lot of marriage couples out there are still struggling for babies. so kami sangat-sangat bersyukur dengan nikmat tuhan ini. mind you, we're not that young. at least, we are still able to send our kids to school without being recognised as their grandparents. hehe.

the first person we called were both of our mums back home. my mom, sarcastically excited and my MIL kinda take it very cool. we decided to stay silent because its too early. at least until we did our first ultrasound. however, for those who has guessed it right, congratulations!! and i can say that you are so good in guessing, lebih tepat, serkap jarang. because, again, honestly we didn't tell anybody except for our parents, until i revealed it in my previous post. i think everyone deserve to know at the very same time because every friends are so special to me. living very far apart makes me realized how important to have supportive and understanding friends and family. i really wish that everyone of you , pray for our lil pumpkin inside.

so this is our first ultrasound done in Jerudong Park Medical Centre. this one done by using vaginal sonographic visualisation. at this time, we could only see the sac. tu nampak tu yang ada kat tengah2. diameter only 4.9mm. very tiny. the gynae done this to ensure that i am having a normal pregnancy. (kalau tak normal,itu ialah pregnant di luar rahim). and if its abnormal, unfortunately u have to remove it. so its good to get it detected while its still early. alhamdulillah, mine is normal.

JPMC is well known as the best specialist centre in Brunei. however, we didn't really favor on the service especially when we knew that we're in private hospital. the gynae was not informative enough, for us. i think its normal for us to ask so many stupid question since this is our first time. and its your task to answer us since we pay for the consultation. not only we got very unsatisfied answer, but also we find that this gynae is sooo irritating, that she can make you lose hope on your pregnancy. pls do not take our difference nationality from you as a problem, since you have your MBBS from UKM.

*sigh*

so, we have decided that we'll be having our antenatal monthly check up done in KL. YABEDABEDUUUUUUU!!!!! i think i am the happiest person on earth. do you know why? because its not easy to have your pregnancy far from your loved ones back at home, especially when this is your first time. i don't know what to do, what to eat, what not to take and etc. i'll share my experience on my expat's maternity on another post. :)

owh, do i have to put up a ticker for my lil pumpkin?