We judge people all the time. We make determinations about their thoughts, their feelings, their actions and etc. That's how relationships function. Perhaps a better, more precise word would be judgmental. If we are judgmental about people, we are looking at their "flaws" and if we cannot accept people for who and what they are, then we do not have time to love them. Sometimes we judge peeple because we don't want to hear the reasons behind what had happened. Are we good enough to talk like that , as we have no-flaws?
For me , if we are too judgmental we might miss relationships that we could have gotten a lot out of. Sometimes stereotypes, rumor, or negative first impressions prevent us from getting to know people. We should wait for more information before deciding, and give a person the benefit of the doubt.
Give other people their right to speak up, because they are human being too. Human being have feelings. Or else, we will destroy everything. Everything.
2 comments:
xpandai sgt BI..tp apa2 pun aku doakan yg terbaik utk ko..:)
Aku pun x pandai sgt jugak. Tp ko taula kalau something wrong tu tekeluar la english aku
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