When we judge people

We judge people all the time. We make determinations about their thoughts, their feelings, their actions and etc. That's how relationships function. Perhaps a better, more precise word would be judgmental. If we are judgmental about people, we are looking at their "flaws" and if we cannot accept people for who and what they are, then we do not have time to love them. Sometimes we judge peeple because we don't want to hear the reasons behind what had happened. Are we good enough to talk like that , as we have no-flaws?

For me , if we are too judgmental we might miss relationships that we could have gotten a lot out of. Sometimes stereotypes, rumor, or negative first impressions prevent us from getting to know people. We should wait for more information before deciding, and give a person the benefit of the doubt.

Give other people their right to speak up, because they are human being too. Human being have feelings. Or else, we will destroy everything. Everything.

Bibik vs babysitter

Currently at honda service, bawak kereta mak dtg service. Since tak buat appointment, just walk in o silelah menunggu dgn sabar.
Sejak mama pegi cairo, kereta mama, aku yg pakai. So terang- teranglah aku yg kene service kan. No such thing as free lunch ok!

Luckily bawak skali ipad. Sbb mmg dah agak dah onfim lama.
Ammar hafiy tak bwk skali? Eh gile ke ape. Dtg service kete bek baby mmg tak sehsuai okeh. Plus dah ada bibik baru kt rumah.
So bole latih bibik jaga baby. Kang nnti mummy dia nk keje asek nk bekepit je tak ke haru.

Well, my newbibik is from medan. Dilemma sebenarnye. Org ckp maid dr medan ni bukan bole pecaya sgt. P itu lah, maid ni ikut luck epeially yg amek dr agent. Ikutkan hatitakmo pkai maid. Nak buat sendiri semua skali dr jaga anak sampai ke masak ke household chores. Tp kalau dh kerja cmana? Pernah try hantar ammar hafiy pegi babysitter. So try ambik after office hour sbb kononnye time tu dah nk start kerje. Hahh kau, penuh nyamuk gigit ammar hafiy. Yg si babysitter toksah ckpla muka kelat sbb amek dH nak magrib. So mmg rasa tak selesai masalah kalau xde maid kt rumah, unless taknak keja la kan. Then bila ambik bibik pulak, mcm2 pulak risaunya. Yelah mana tahu sakit hati sama majikan, lepas geram pada anak. Depan baik belakang tuhan aja yg tahu. Mmg kalau keluar je tinggal ammar hafiy dgn bibik, rasa mcm tak tenteram. Huhuhu cemana ni nak g kerjaaaa. Dilemmaa sungguh.

And bibik baru ni mmg first time dtg malysia. Katanya kepingin dtg ke malaysia sbb kwn2 ckp nyaman dan lumayan. Huhuhhu. N obviously bibik ni bukan dr pedalaman, org bandar ok. Rumah siap ada kereta, laptop semua lengkap. So mmg berserah pd Allah je la ni. Yelah, susah nk nilai manusia ni. Rambut sama hitam, hati lain-lain. Hanya mampu berdoa semoga hati bibik ni terbuka utk kerja seikhlas hati, mengasihi dan menyayangi ammar hafiy mcm anak sendiri. Tak buat kerja rumah pun takpe, janji jaga ammar je. Tp so far nmpak cam rajin. Sampai ke baju ammarhafiy boxer mr hubs habis di iron. Taktaula awal2 je ke ape kan. Mudahan Allah lapangkam dada nya senang hati kerja dgn kami. Andai di rmah kami bukan untuk dia, semoga Allah bagi petunjuk sejelasnyA. Kalau boleh andaikata tak sesuai pun, jgnla sampai lari. Kami ambil cara baik so kami hantar cara baik. Mudah-mudahan Allah permudahkan segwlanya. Amin

BR1M

assalamualaikum.

ehem!

lupa pulak eden ado blog. :P

hehehehe. so ekau penah dengar pasal BR1M? ape dah nama penuh dia? Bantuan Rakyat ! Malaysia kan? alaa yang datuk seri najib ckp dlm budget2012 tuuuu.
so skarang dia dah kotakan janji. so sape2 yang total pendapatan isi rumah bawah rm3000 boleh la apply. sape yg lebih takyah la buang masa apply. registration start from 10 Dec 2011 until 10 January 2012.

sesiapa nak register bole ambil form dekat ketua kampung/ pej wakil rakyat/ pej ketua daerah/jab kebajikan masyarakat.
kalau nak download bole pegi website LHDN atau MOF

kalau mcm kerja sendiri ke atau senang cite takde payslip kan, pegi dptkan cop pengesahan ketua kampung k. wakil rakyat pun boleh rasanya. as long as ada tanggungan boleh la apply. pastu anto je terus dekat ketua kampung/wakil rakyat tu.

nanti kalau dah approve, insyaallah dpt la imbuhan rm500 tu.


macam kitorang ni dah terang2 tak layak. hmmmmmm... :|


well, ammar hafiy pun dah masuk 4 bulan lebih. dah pandai meniarap ok. so tak bole tinggal dia sorang2 atas katil dah. very dangerous!!






ni gambar family paling latest. time ni pegi annual dinner jkr. dulu kecik je ammar hafiy tu. skang nak dukung pun rasa berat. wuwuwuuwuuu cepatnye ekau beso!

1.11.11

cantik kan tarikh harini?

ececeee padahal nak cover bulan lepas langsung takde entry. ahahahaa.

well, motherhood is aint easy. but i'm coping up, insyaallah.

so its already november. pastu dah december. mmg sesuai sgt la kalau skarang nak review

azam 2011 time-time camni kan. i can say that i have nothing big in my lists, since i was busy pregnant :P

however, i can say that i will be embarking on a new journey soon. pretty excited, but at the same time cudnt care less on my lil one. will talk bout it later.

ammar hafiy pun dah besar sket. takdela besar sgt. hehe. but the most inspiring moment is when you wake up in the morning and there he is, smiling at you. OMG rasa mcm mmg takde problem dlm dunia ni. and dia dah pandai takmo tdo malam. at some times, kite pun get cranky jugak sbb kita pun letih+sleepy. tp pernah skali ni, tgh joget2 dodoikan dia sbb marah sgt so swing dia laju2 sambil pangku dia kat lengan, boleh dia terkekek2 dlm gelap tu. adoi tak jadi marah. sabo je la. tp nnti mintak maaf balik dgn dia "ammar, mommy minta maaf smalam mommy marah ammar. tp marah manja je kan. mommy penat. daddy takde. i promise i wont do it again." pastu rasa mcm best sbb nnti dia gelak je. :P mcm paham je kan ammar oii

till then. i have a lot to juggle with right now. (read: husbandless at the moment)

love