s.o.s

nak pilih hospital ni.

do you have any suggestion for good, female gynaecologist?

and recommended hospital to go to?

and which hospital is not worth any penny at all?

help!

new addition

first of all, thank you very much for all the hearty wishes. we kept on receiving sweet messages through sms, emails, twitter and FB also ym! . we are so overwhelmed that some of you loved to spend your time sharing with us about your first time experiences getting a bun in the oven. not to forget to all friends and family with a neverending support. not to mention all the propagandas before. hehe

frankly speaking, after finding out about the pregnancy, we were so excited. at first, we were not really planning for baby yet, but if this is called fate, then we are so grateful. alhamdulillah we are the chosen one to be a parent at this age. because there are a lot of marriage couples out there are still struggling for babies. so kami sangat-sangat bersyukur dengan nikmat tuhan ini. mind you, we're not that young. at least, we are still able to send our kids to school without being recognised as their grandparents. hehe.

the first person we called were both of our mums back home. my mom, sarcastically excited and my MIL kinda take it very cool. we decided to stay silent because its too early. at least until we did our first ultrasound. however, for those who has guessed it right, congratulations!! and i can say that you are so good in guessing, lebih tepat, serkap jarang. because, again, honestly we didn't tell anybody except for our parents, until i revealed it in my previous post. i think everyone deserve to know at the very same time because every friends are so special to me. living very far apart makes me realized how important to have supportive and understanding friends and family. i really wish that everyone of you , pray for our lil pumpkin inside.

so this is our first ultrasound done in Jerudong Park Medical Centre. this one done by using vaginal sonographic visualisation. at this time, we could only see the sac. tu nampak tu yang ada kat tengah2. diameter only 4.9mm. very tiny. the gynae done this to ensure that i am having a normal pregnancy. (kalau tak normal,itu ialah pregnant di luar rahim). and if its abnormal, unfortunately u have to remove it. so its good to get it detected while its still early. alhamdulillah, mine is normal.

JPMC is well known as the best specialist centre in Brunei. however, we didn't really favor on the service especially when we knew that we're in private hospital. the gynae was not informative enough, for us. i think its normal for us to ask so many stupid question since this is our first time. and its your task to answer us since we pay for the consultation. not only we got very unsatisfied answer, but also we find that this gynae is sooo irritating, that she can make you lose hope on your pregnancy. pls do not take our difference nationality from you as a problem, since you have your MBBS from UKM.

*sigh*

so, we have decided that we'll be having our antenatal monthly check up done in KL. YABEDABEDUUUUUUU!!!!! i think i am the happiest person on earth. do you know why? because its not easy to have your pregnancy far from your loved ones back at home, especially when this is your first time. i don't know what to do, what to eat, what not to take and etc. i'll share my experience on my expat's maternity on another post. :)

owh, do i have to put up a ticker for my lil pumpkin?

pengakuan ekslusip. secret revealed!!

hoyeahhh exam sudah habes. susah ke senang ke toksah la tanye okeh. yang penting sudah berakhir penderitaan ku. wahahahahhahahaha. so tak payah dah nak pk buku-buku itu. skarang kita berserah sahaja. :)

orait berbalik kepada top secret itu. apa kene dengan korang nih? nak sangat ke pregnant? aiyooo.
kasik la kami berdua-duaan bermanja-manjaan dulu.
kalau dah ada baby nanti asyik berebut ngan baby je. ahahahhaa.

dia kan, kalau betul pregnant, harus lah ada symptom. atau pun ciri-ciri. ataupun criteria. haih ape-apelah yang org panggil.

so memandangkan ramai sgt yg teka pregnant, so mari kita lihat apakah semua itu ada padaku.

Simptom-Simptom kehamilan

10. Sentiasa berasa lapar

-alah yang ni bukan kalau tak mengandung pun lapar ke? tambah-tambah kalau duduk rumah je. asek-asek bukak freezer tengok apa ada kan. hahahahhaaa. so ni tak boleh pakai.

9. Sembelit

- kalau korang nak tahu, saya adalah pesakit sembelit yang azali sejak di zaman bayi. kalau org normal akan buang air besar sehari sekurang-kurangnya sehari. saya? seminggu pun boleh. hebatkan. so ini pun tak boleh pakai!

8. Kekerapan membuang air kecil

- ha ini lagi skali saya tegaskan. saya lady of leisure. duduk rumah tengok tv je ke keje. tak pun keluar melepak. tak ke aktiviti itu semua melibatkan minum air. so bukan ke tak pasal-pasal kerap membuang air kecil. haihh.. ni pun tak boleh pakai!

7. tumbuh jerawat

- aik, abes budak-budak skolah yang naik jerawat tu takkan mengandung kot? alahaiii. no no

6. paras suhu badan yang meningkat

- ini pun lagi satu. memandangkan saya sukar buang air besar, maka sememangnya suhu badan saya sentiasa panas. kalau cam demam tu, dah panas garing mcm goreng pisang baru rasa demam. lagipun saya kan too hot too handle. wakakakakka. vole?

5. loya dan muntah-muntah

- ini simptom paling kuat kalau kita pregnant kan. tapi masalahnya, saya tak muntah-muntah pun? how?

4. gangguan penglihatan seperti kabur, penglihatan berganda, apa-apa lah berkaitan dengan penglihatan

- sudah sedia ada rabun. terima kasih! so tak bole pakai jugak. huhuhuhu. tak percaya lagik?

3. sakit bahagian bawah abdomen yang teruk di satu sisi atau kedua-dua belah sisi

- bukan kalau pesakit asma memang akan sakit abdomen ke kalau ada attack? damn! tak boleh pakai jugak. :P

2. Payudara semakin membesar dan sensitif dan aerola semakin menggelap

- jap nak check. aah la cam besar sket. hahahaa. tapi bukan payudara kita mmg sensitif ke? gelap ke tidak nnti tanya mr hubs eh. HOHOHOHOHOOO

1. kerap sakit kepala

- kalau ini, saya salahkan teks book! yelah self study bukan senang okay!

alahaiiiii.. baby owhhh babyyyy....

ok itu semua adalah simptom-simptom andai betul kita hamil. tapi kalau kita tak confident cemana? yelah kalau saya ni boleh dikatakan 90% pun takde dlm simptom tu. so apa kita boleh buat ialah pegi guardian atau watson, beli pregnancy test kit sendiri. yg ni bole test-test sendiri okay. so kalau betul positive, maka boleh la terus berjumpa dengan doktor untuk pengesahan dan tindakan selanjutnya. tapi kalau negatif, sila berusaha lebih gigih lagi.

so apa yg berlaku kepada saya???? tell me tell me. gedik pulak kan. :P

jeng jeng jengggggg.....................

setelah empat pregnancy test saya buat memberi saya result yang mengelirukan. maka saya terus jumpa doktor. maka yang ni mmg sah-sah la tak boleh keliru lagi kan. sbb ni govt hospital yer. tak bole tipu-tipu. nanti kene saman. malu kerajaan.

so keputusannya ialah:

alhamdulillah. Allah kurniakan rezeki buat kami :) .... satu hari mr hubs pegi kerja dengan senyuman tangkap lentok. saya tahu mungkin terlalu awal untuk saya announce sbb ni baru minggu ke-7. tapi seriously, saya perlukan doa untuk kawan-kawan untuk semuanya selamat dan sempurna. so kalau tak bagitau macam mana nak mintak tolong doakan ye tak? so pls pls plssss doakan kami ye.

hi. nama saya baby bam bam

owh kitorang ada buat ultrasound di Jerudong Park Medical Centre. tapi yang tu nanti lah. next post. bagi chance kitorang senyom senyom dulu. :P

edisi ibu mertua

been busy.

very very very very very very busy..

MIL, FIL, SIL, BIL are here since friday.
and i just toooo busy to get online.

Facebook, Twitter, Blogspot, do we really know each other?

but, seriously i am so happy with them around.

great food, nice people to talk to, funny jokes to laugh at,

which at the same time juggling hard to make everything seems perfect.

the cutleries, the kitchen, the dishes, the refrigerator, the bedsheet, the couch,

the floor, the carpet, the laundry, and etc has to be dustless, clean,

well-folded, well-arranged, fresh, shiny and the best position it can be.

(yelah, aku kan tgh jaga anak dia kan)

see, i am a happy people :)

so for the time being, bye bye text book and practise kit also the past year papers. i really don't have time for you. i dunno how will i sit for my exam. but i know for all these, god must have granted something in return. we will never know. Insyaallah.

and of course, about the top secret, i'll reveal it right after my party buih. i won't forget. do not worry. owh i'm going to attend this party buih after my exam. hoyeah!!

A Mother-in-Law and Daughter-in-Law relationship is a mystery. you'll discover it yourself soon.but mine is so wonderful. alhamdulillah. hehehehehe.

tapi, harini masuk hari kedua dah bangun-bangun mak mertua dah siap-siap sediakan breakfast untuk kitorang. siap fork and spoon teratur di atas meja. siap cuci toilet lagi.. wuwuwuwuwuwuuuu...